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Thursday, March 22, 2012
ALL new posts for I AM a QUEEN will be found at:
I AM a QUEEN
I hope you will join and follow us there!!
Posted at 02:30 pm by Kimber-Ley
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Friday, March 16, 2012
I am beautiful and strong. I give enough love, attention and time to myself
that I have plenty of energy, time, attention, love and compassion
to give to everyone else as well.
I stand up for myself and do NOT compromise myself,
my values or my virtues for anyone else.
I am responsible for my own choices and happiness
and I am the queen of my own life.
Posted at 11:22 pm by Kimber-Ley
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I SHINE With MY Own LIGHT
EACH and EVERY one of us has a light of life and joy and passion inside us.
It is up to you to find whatever thing it is that lifts that joy up and out of you
and SHARE it with the world!
We all have gifts, talents, abilities and dreams.
Whatever YOURS is should be followed, used, shared, chased down and built up!
FIND it and follow it through until you:
SHINE with YOUR own LIGHT!
Posted at 11:11 pm by Kimber-Ley
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I have dignity, pride, decency and compassion.
I am decent.
I am fair.
I am loving.
I am REAL.
I can be proud of myself and my accomplishments in life.
I have passion.
I am compassionate.
I respect myself.
I have dignity.
I treat everyone including MYSELF with respect, dignity, decency and compassion.
Posted at 11:03 pm by Kimber-Ley
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We must know that we are STRONG and capable of handling ANYTHING.
WE ARE STRONG.
"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."
Often we find out by going THROUGH something that we thought we could NOT handle
and surviving it that we have a LOT more strength inside us than we knew.
Many situations in life are like this.
The point is to KNOW that you can handle anything life can throw at you and continue to EXPLORE, LEARN, GROW, TRY and FOLLOW your own dreams.
Be BRAVE because YOU are STRONG!
Posted at 10:49 pm by Kimber-Ley
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I LOVE MYSELF in order to LOVE others.
If you don't show love to yourself
how will you ever have the energy and emotion to show it to others?
If you don't give yourself time and attention occasionally
you will not be mentally, emotionally and physically well and whole and happy
and then able to share love and attention with others.
It is IMPORTANT to take SOME time for yourself.
Whether it is five minutes a day or one whole day a week (or month)
depending on your busy schedule just make some time for yourself.
Take a long bubble bath and recharge.
Stay in bed and read a book.
Curl up on the couch with a cup of tea and watch a chick flick.
WHATEVER it is that gives you some quality quiet time to yourself for rest, relaxation or just reflection on the past few days,
TAKE IT!
YOU deserve some love and attention
just as much as EVERYONE you are usually giving all of your time and attention to!
Posted at 10:39 pm by Kimber-Ley
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I FORGIVE MYSELF for mistakes.
A parent forgives their child for a wrong doing.
A brother forgives his sibling for some petty grievance.
A sister forgives her sibling for a stolen boyfriend.
A best friend forgives her friend for a lie.
A child forgives their parent for "magical stories".
A husband forgives his wife for an affair.
A wife forgives her husband for gambling their rent away.
Children forgive their drug addicted parents when sobriety is reached and repentance owned.
A friend forgives a friend for a perceived transgression.
A mother forgives her daughter for becoming an alcoholic and wasting her life in a bottle.
Many transgressions, sorrows and horrors are forgiven EVERY DAY.
WHY can't you forgive YOURSELF for whatever thing it is that you have done?
You are HUMAN, like any of us and you make mistakes.
BE SORRY.
Allow YOURSELF healing.
Forgive yourself and let it GO.
Move ON!
YOU deserve forgiveness too.
Posted at 09:46 pm by Kimber-Ley
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I Accept Myself and my own flaws.
Part of healing and letting go of the pain and moving ON
is acceptance of our own flaws and imperfections.
Accepting allows us to recognize that we ARE no different than anyone else and that we ALL have faults, flaws, imperfections, and weaknesses.
We ALL make mistakes but we can be forgiven and move forward.
Accepting allows you to CHANGE the things you CAN change
and acknowledge things you can't change as PART OF YOU.
There is always room for improvement and growth for ourselves AND for others.
You would accept and forgive their flaws and imperfections so
WHY can't you do the same thing for YOURSELF?
YOU deserve acceptance TOO!
Posted at 09:36 pm by Kimber-Ley
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I do NOT compromise myself.
If you believe in something NEVER compromise it to please someone else.
YOU are equally entitled to beliefs, ideas, feelings and opinions about EVERYTHING.
Sometimes we can feel threatened or afraid to speak our own voice
but it is necessary to SPEAK.
"Speak the truth, even if your voice shakes."
How beautiful is that?
In the end the only person you hurt when you compromise yourself
(especially when the reason is not to hurt them) IS yourself.
Be BRAVE and STAND strong and firm for whatever it is that you believe in.
Posted at 09:27 pm by Kimber-Ley
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When faced with situations where you feel manipulated, used or controlled
STAND UP for yourself!
Don't let people push you to do things you really don't want to do
or that compromise your own beliefs or feelings.
If your family and friends really love you they will come around
to understanding when something is important to you.
If they don't, they aren't really LISTENING to you are they?
IF you really believe in it, don't give up!
There comes a time in life for whatever reason that SOMEONE stands against us on a cause, idea or decision and the reason IS so that we can stand up for ourselves,
that we can KNOW deeply and understand just how much a part of us our choice was, how important, how vital and how much we will RISK to obtain it or reach it!
It is ok! It is part of the journey and it happens for EVERYONE.
We ALL have to learn sometime that we CAN fight for something we believe in
AND that doing so can be worth EVERYTHING!
Posted at 09:16 pm by Kimber-Ley
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